Therapy
Individuals
I understand the frustration of having done everything right, & yet the life you envisioned still seems so far out of reach. You've earned the degrees, acquired the things, & your life is still incomplete. When you look at your relationships you struggle with overthinking, overexplaining, codependence, perfectionism, loneliness, & maybe even abuse. You've tried to change to make choices you believed would lead to happiness, and yet you're still stuck. You understand that if something doesn't change you'll never experience the love you've always desired. You need help.
Individual therapy is the perfect place to identify your goals, clarify your intentions, and build the confidence to make decisions that align with where you want to be.
Couples
I know you love each other, and you want to make it work; you just don't know how. You're navigating infidelity or some other relationship breakdown, & the tools you've used to repair it have caused you to drift so far away you don't know how to get back to one another. The layers of frustration & shame are so deep you think it may be easier to quit and walk away; or maybe the issues seem so small that this "should be" easier to overcome. No matter the issue, you realize the value in each other and you want to save the relationship because you can't stand the idea of living apart. You need help.
In couple's therapy you'll learn about yourselves, and each other. You'll develop the skills to better communicate, listen, and to show up for yourselves and one another.
Hello there!
My name is Kerrie. Welcome to The Other Side!
I help high-achieving women who find themselves stuck in toxic relationships to rediscover real love - starting with the love they give themselves - so they can build lives that are intentional, fulfilling, & authentic. I understand the pain and frustration that comes with believing the next relationship will be different, only to find yourself confronting the same problem in a different person. You've come to recognize if something doesn't change, nothing will change; you risk settling for less than your worth, or worse, a life of loneliness. I can help.
Services
Individual Therapy
You tell me where you want to go.
You tell me what happened.
I'll ask questions.
You'll have transformative experiences.
I'll provide you with feeback to get you to the goal.
Couples Therapy
You tell me where you want to go.
You tell me what happened.
You may argue a little, & sometimes I'll interrupt.
I'll ask questions.
I'll probably interrupt a little more.
You'll have experiences that get you to the goal.
Group Therapy
I'll teach.
You'll listen.
You may have questions.
You'll definitely have some aha moments.
I'll check in with you.
You'll jot down reflections.
You'll never be the same.
Transformation
I’m going through a transformation
I don’t know what’s on the other side.
I can’t stay here though
Here lives too much pain.
The residue of bad decisions from the residue of bad experiences.
They hurt me, they did
And though hurt’s been my home for so long
I’ve got to get outta here.
On to where I wanna be
The unknown, and yet I know I don’t wanna be here anymore.
Love never lived here
Only sadness here, veiled by love
Because I always loved.
Loved and loved until it almost made me hate myself.
Gotta date myself
Let God restore me.
Place me in His cocoon
A hard shell
So that I can be transformed.
